Monday, January 9, 2012

Routines

Today was my first day back after three weeks off for Christmas break. I needed the time off and needed the rest but quickly developed routines that were not very productive. It's great to take time off and do something different, and to get some much needed rest. I was ready to get back to work, but did I accomplish anything during that time off - did I have fun?

When given he opportunity, my kids can sleep in all day. From my high school days I can remember sleeping in until 12-12:30 on Saturday mornings after Friday night football games. Today, if I can sleep in until 8:30, I'm doing great. Between an aging bladder and a old dog dying for morning attention (well, a backyard potty break and some breakfast), it's impossible to sleep later than 9 AM.

One routine that I had developed before Christmas was uninterrupted 30 minutes of listening to the Bible from the YouVersion app on my iPhone on the way to school in the morning. Since I didn't have to go to school, I would get on the laptop or iPad and read 3 newspapers, check out Facebook for a couple of hours and then watch a documentary or movie on Netflix. This new routine really ate a lot of my time and left me drained.

Towards the end it was getting pretty pathetic as I turned to foreign films and watched a series of short movies that poked fun at life in communist Romania. I have always liked listening to foreign languages and this got me in the mood for more. I finished my movie vacation by watching a movie that was in Swedish, English and Arabic (Arn: The Knight Templar). Although I enjoyed these movies, I found myself wanting more. Chris had moved a DVD up in our queue, The Ultimate Gift, a movie that we had seen parts of at our men's retreat last May. It was good and great way to end my movie watching for now.

During vacation I thought about going out for a bike ride or a walk. But ultimately I was just too lazy. Now I could feel guilty about this but I choose not to. I didn't completely fall into my typical Christmas time blues. I did get to spend time with Wendi and the kids a lot more. We ate meals together every day. I did take Kaylene to and from her soccer practices. And I took a shower and got dressed every day - by 3:30 most days.

I also successfully resisted the temptation to work on school projects during break. I managed to turn off my district e-mail account and avoided even thinking about work for at least two weeks. Last night, the eve before going to work, I woke up once every two hours. I kept thinking it was time to get up. When my alarm did go off at 5:00, I managed to hit the snooze button for ten more minutes.

Today was a good day to ease back into the old routines. I did listen to the book of Colossians  on the way in. At the end of the day I had accomplished some things and left enough to keep me busy for the rest of the week - at least my plans for the week. I know that will change as unexpected things come up.

In the end, I think that the next time I have extended time off, I will be more purposeful in what I will do with my free time. Perhaps plan a day trip with Wendi up to the mountains or to the coast. I'll even consider going for bike rides and walks. One thing that I will not do is to update this blog.